My opinions often don't hold with socially accepted views. For instance, I approve hole heartedly with gossiping and talking about people. And then, people say to me . . . but don't you feel bad when people talk about you, and really, I don't. As Oscar Wilde said, “The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about.” I think I'd be terribly depressed to learn one day that people don't talk about me.
I find it particularly fun when I find out what people were saying about me. For instance, in high school, there were these two guys that I often speculated about. It had nothing to do with a crush. I just found something interesting about them. So now, one of my best friends is friends with one of them, and it seems they used to talk about me. They used to speculate that I liked dragons. and fantasy. Dragons and princesses. I don't know, it's a bit strange. But it's nice to know, that people were talking about me.
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